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My Twin Flame and I deserve each other.

“I don’t deserve you.”

“Twinklebear” is my Twin Flame. That was a comment she made to me recently, but it wasn’t rooted in any sort of inequity between us. Rather, it was stated while she was in the throes of gratitude for the love we have for each other. I could have just as easily have been the one to utter it to her, and it would be the same. We are so lucky to have each other—and we know it! For us to say “I don’t deserve you” is just another way of us saying, “I love you.” It is a declarative statement of emotion.

I love this about us. We find different ways to let each other know how much we appreciate, love and need the other. That is the nature of us being each other’s true “other half,” because we are Twin Flames or “Twin Souls.” The very definition of Twin Souls are are two separate souls that began as a single soul at the beginning of time, whom God cleaved into two, in order to create two people who are exclusively the perfect mate to the other. In secular life, ordinary couples refer to their mates as their “other half,” but only with Twin Souls is this meaning pf the term “other half” literal in nature.

You are my sunshine, my only sunshine
You make me happy when skies are grey
You never know, dear, how much I love you
Please don’t take my sunshine away…..

This song is so old, but is aptly descriptive of how much I love and need my Twinklebear. The song epitomizes how Twinklebear treats me and affects me. She is my sunshine, the brightness of my every day, ever since we met. She brings joy, light, happiness and laughter into my life. Twinklebear uplifts me. She is the illumination that banishes any darkness in my life.

Twinklebear lifts my spirits.

Please realize how significant the key word in what I just said is. That word is “spirits.” People use this phrase so ubiquitously, that they many may not realize that “spirits” relates to the “spiritual,” which is what the Twin Flame relationship is. The profundity of the word “spirits” in this oft said phrase, is diluted by the frequency of the phrase’s shallow usage in popular culture.

SPIRITS: noun. the nonphysical part of a person which is the seat of emotions and character, the soul.

“The soul.” Twinklebear is my Twin Soul, and what she does every single day, is to lift my “soul,” as I do for her as well. That is what Twin Flames do for each other, part of their raison d’etre. To uplift, to carry the soul of one’s Twin to greater heights actually and metaphorically, as if to reach Heaven together more expeditiously. Twin Flames are always striving to re-create that spiritual state when they were but one single soul, whole and loving.

This is what Twinklebear and I do for each other. When life’s disappointments arise for us, we make up for it by not disappointing each other. Rather, we live up to our love for the other. When others we trust betray that positivity we show to them, by paying us back not in kind, but in negativity and drama—our Twin Souls make us “whole” again, by only responding in kind, and kindness.

We make each other whole again.

The Wreck of the Hesperus.

When one of us feels like The Wreck of the Hesperus, the other rights our ship again, making us “whole” again. The light and love from Twinklebear when I’m feeling low, buoys me and keeps me from sinking. I try and do the same for her. That is what true Twin Flame love does, buoys one’s Twin to keep him or her afloat. As Twins, we are each other’s life vests, in life and beyond. Simply put, we make sure the other “is alright.”

We say “I love you” every day to each other, perhaps 20 times a day. Almost as remarkable, is that we repeatedly ask each other every day, “Are you okay?” With our Twin Flame love comes this concomitant concern with the other’s welfare, no surprise given that Twinklebear and I are two halves of the same soul. This ultra caring about the other, is so natural for us, yet far and beyond the concern level among regular (non Twin Flame) couples. It is yet another sign marking us as true Twin Souls.

Twinklbear and I are always worried about the other’s welfare.

So, when one of us says to the other, “I don’t deserve you” or “What did I do to deserve you,” it is another form of “I love you so much” to us. It is an acknowledgment of how much our Twin Flame means to us. Our Twins are the very embodiment of love, caring and need that are so characteristically intense in the Twin Soul relationship.

We deserve each other.


I love you, Twinklebear
Forever and a day
Twin Flames, podmates always
Bear Pact Forever!
12 12 12 in every way

1 thought on ““I DON’T DESERVE YOU”

  1. So sweet my Sookybear. We are each others SUNSHINE. Always and forever. I love you my Twinflame! Podmates Twinflames 🐻 Pact forever! You’re a “soppy date!” You are just as much, the light of my life too. XX forever and a day! 12

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