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A Twin Flame Dilemma.

The Twin Flame World is full of dilemmas. It is easy to understand why, as the sudden and unanticipated meeting of Twin Flames (or “Twin Souls,” two people who were split from one single soul at the beginning of time) pits one world against another.

The first world is the World of the Present, our everyday world in which ordinary people live their lives. In short, the world of non-Twin Flames. The second world, the World of the Past, Present and Future, is the world inhabited by Twin Flame lovers.

These Twin Flame lovers were chosen by a Higher Power at the beginning of time, to be each other’s sole perfect mate–because they were born of a single soul. The ever present mission of Twin Flame lovers is to defy the odds through reincarnation, to “find” each other. This can only occur if both Twins are reincarnated into the same periods of time together. They can easily “miss” the other by years, decades, centuries and millennia—as if each had a haphazardly calibrated time machine.

Unfortunately for Twins, being reincarnated into the same lifetime does not guarantee unlimited happiness, as the mixing of The World of the Present and the World of the Past, Present and Future, is like mixing water and oil. Think of the inherent challenges.

The dilemma lies in the very different nature of the two worlds, which are more often than not, at cross purposes. The World of the Present is firmly rooted in the practical, the “here and now.” It is the “here and now” which is dictated by secular events and people, the ordinary events and people which populate all of our lives.

The World of the Past, Present and Future is informed by “the ideal,” a world in which Twin Flame lovers should and would have been united through all time, from the beginning of time. When these worlds collide, the world of the “practical” and the world of the “ideal”—this is when most Twin Flame dilemmas occur.

Think about it. Twins that find each other in the same lifetimes, could face obstacles such as living halfway around the world from each other. They may be 70 years apart in age. They may not speak the language of their Twin. One or both may be married to other people.

There may be resistance from Twin’s relatives and friends to the union, which may be intractably conditioned in one or both Twins, preventing a comfortable union. Social conventions imposed by one’s relatives and friends from a lifetime of conditioning, can be a powerful impediment.

It is difficult and sometimes impossible for people in Twin’s lives, to grasp and believe in the Twin Flame reality. The reality of the Twin Flame journey is ultra-real and of supreme importance to Twins, but their relatives and friends (as well as darker forces set on disrupting the Twins) may label it as foolish fantasy, and try to influence and discourage the Twins’ efforts to reunite.

My beautiful Twinklebear.

My Twin Flame love, Twinklebear and I face such dilemmas. I won’t divulge the specifics to protect our privacy, but these dilemmas are very real to us.
Nevertheless, our Twin Flame history and bond is so unbreakably strong, that we will never part.

However, since my Twin and I still live in the World of the Present, we both get frustrated that our union is neither ideal or complete, we occasionally vent our frustrations. Twinklebear and I jokingly call these venting sessions as the “Battle of the Brats.” Ha!

Inevitably though, these necessary occasional bouts of frustration venting, are healthy for us as they teach us at the end of our respective bratty whinging and whining, that we can never part. This venting is a healthy release of negative steam. If you’ve been following our Twin Flame journey through these memoirs, you know that both Twinklebear and I know the gutting nature of even thinking of parting. It is painful beyond belief, and an impossibility!


I love you, Twinklebear
Forever and a day
Twin Flames, podmates always
Bear Pact Forever!
12 12 12 in every way

2 thoughts on ““DILEMMA”

  1. So apt and true my sookybear. Thank you for this great memoir. Forces do seem to play a huge role, on both our parts.Geographically and outer influences.
    I love you forever and a day! Podmates Twinflames 🐻 pact forever and a day! 12 ❤

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  2. Thanks so much, my AC Twinklebear. Yes, the aptness of these memoirs does seem to mirror ho we are feeling the time. A true chronicle. My Baby, I love you forever and day, my lovely brat! Ha! 12 12 12


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