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To “yearn.”

Such a benign word. Almost a pretty word, that lends itself to so many circumstances, that it is like a chameleon tool. Within the verb “yearn” is hidden the power of diverse applicability. It can amount to a lovely tease, or a sledgehammer that bludgeons mercilessly.

I yearn for an ice cream cone.
I yearn for a day off from work.
I yearn for an ice cold beer.

All very mundane yearnings, I think you would agree. The magic of the word “yearn” is that it can apply to the ordinary, but can also apply to the extraordinary. One of the most extraordinary of human desires is the profound yearning for one’s Twin Flame.



to desire something strongly


That is very straightforward. To desire something strongly. But how strongly? The prosaic sound of the word, belies the gut-wrenching yearning for one’s Twin Flame (or Twin Soul). From personal experience, I can tell you that this phenomenon started for my Twin Flame and I three years ago. I distinctly recall one conversation my Twin Flame Twinklebear and I had three years ago, when Twinklebear said to me….


“I thought about you all day. No matter what I was doing or who I was with, all I could think about was you.”

That hit me like a ton of bricks, because I admitted to her that it was exactly the way I thought about her: all day long, from morning till night. She was my very first thought upon awakening, and my very last thought at night. It was uncanny how identical our thought process was about each other. Her admission plucked at my heart strings, I was so happy to hear her say it.

This incredible woman, she actually said that to me!

The level of predetermined design of the way we suddenly felt, implied a higher omnipotent power having a hand in it. It was too neat, too intense and too mutually persistent to be mere infatuation. That is when we suspected, and now know that something permanent was insinuating itself into our lives. Our yearning for each other has not abated, and it does now seem “normal” for this mutual yearning to exist, forevermore.

Needing her and wanting her, is a way of life.

It is a way of life for Twin Flames. I wouldn’t trade the way we need each other for anything in the world. This yearning has a life of its own, like a well nourished and beautiful predatory tiger, which thrives on our love and need for each other. It is healthy, bursting with vigor and voracious to be sated. It roars with pleasure when Twinklebear and I see each other!

We are lucky to have learned what true love is, a rare commodity known to few.

We have discussed this many times since, and come to the conclusion that much of our lives when we don’t see or talk to each other, is a holding pattern of “real life stuff.” This “real life stuff” acts to distract from our missing of the other, and a way to kill time until we can see and speak with each other.

Ironically what dulls the razor sharp edge of the yearning, is the knowledge we enjoy (with no little degree of comfort) that this yearning will not be gone tomorrow, next year, ten years from now or ever. This sounds like a contradiction, but it true. I am comforted to know that the intense love and yearning will never dissipate. This is why Twinklebear and I love the phrase….

I love you, forever and a day.

For us “forever and a day” is a wish, wish fulfillment and reality, all at the same time. It is our anthem and eternal pledge of allegiance, spoken with the reverence for the deep spiritual bonds underlying the yearning like the thick steel cables that support suspension bridges. These bonds span oceans of time, with no limit in sight. I will love my Twinklebear, forever and a day.


I love you, Twinklebear
Forever and a day!
Twin Flames, podmates always
Bear Pact Forever
12 12 12 in every way

2 thoughts on ““YEARN”

  1. Hey “shhh!” Don’t tell everyone! Ha! Donk! My Sookybear, thank you so much for this beautiful memoir. We are “Twinflames.” It is impossible NOT to think of one another. We are so closely connected.
    I love you forever and a day! Podmates Twinflames 🐻 pact forever ❤12

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  2. Indeed, my AC Twinklebear, it IS impossible NOT to think about you and yearn for you. Bad Girl! “DONK” Ha! In fact, I was yearning for you even as I wrote this. I love you, forever and a day! 12 12 12

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