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The Twin Flame journey is a living babbling brook where the counteracting forces of the Twins seek homeostasis.



homeostasis: a stable state of equilibrium between the different but interdependent elements of an organism


In our Twin Flame journey, Twinklebear and I are “the different but interdependent elements of an organism” referred to in the definition. We are also like the counteracting forces of the living babbling brook, who seek to maintain that balance, that homeostasis that represents us as the two halves of the same single soul divided at the beginning of time, into two separate people.

We two together, are that “organism” that demands that homeostasis and harmony be kept up within our Twin Flame Pod. The means at our disposal for maintaining homeostasis and harmony are unconditional love and support of the other, employed individually, contingent on the relative needs of each at any given point in time. Changes and events in the life of each Twin are the “ebb and flow” that dictates the “relative needs” of either Twin.

When I speak of the “ebb” it means as you would deduce, a “receding” of sorts. In the context of the Twin Flame relationship, it is the receding of good fortune in one Twin’s existence, which then leads to the “flow” which represents the unconditional love and support from the affected Twin’s partner.

Twinklebear and I both had this ebbing, but Twinklebear’s occurred first last year. Both of our ebbs were related to health issues. In 2017, Twinklebear developed cancer, which thankfully was successfully treated. My health issue happened this year, when I suffered a fractured hip, which was also treated successfully.

Both ebbs resulted in fear and emotional despondency, and I can say unequivocally, if it hadn’t been for the total love and emotional support of the other, neither of us would have fared as well as we did. Each of us was at a low point emotionally and physically when our individual ebbing took place, and the response of the other was life nurturing in every way you can think of.

We need each other like we need air and water.

I am still in the recovery stages of my recovery, and if it were not for the total love and support of my Twinklebear, I don’t think I could get through it. I need and love her so much! She is my eternal wife and eternal Twin Flame. She means everything to me

Twin Flames have an unconditionally enduring commitment to each other. These “ebbs” in Twin Flames’ lives, demand—and get—from the other Twin, unquestioned emotional support throughout the entire recovery period of each ebb. That could take months in some cases. But that epitomizes the Twin Flame journey. Steadfast, enduring and eternal.

In the babbling brook of our Twin Flame journey, Twinklebear and I have experienced the ebbs and the counteractions, which preserves homeostasis. We will always need each other, and love each other in our babbling brook.


I love you, Twinklebear
Forever and a day
Twin Flames, podmates always
Bear Pact Forever!
12 12 12 in every way


  1. We certainly will always have an equilibrium, and of course my sookybear, water always finds a source, a source of which to reunite, with other water. The continual flow of water,,and rain, the oceans, being one of the main elements, on our planet. The others of course, being ” fire , earth,, and air”. We all need each component, to survive, and flourish. Twinflames, only need their twin, to be whole and nourished. Of course , we need to eat, breath, be warm etc, but we rely nn each other, for our emotional, and physical,. Well being. I am so privileged, to have my sookybear,,as my twin. Thank you .
    What a wonderful memoir,, and a great way to put our journey. Like an ” ebb”. Of flowing water. Likewise, your support, and care, has been second to none. I love you. Always and a day . Podmates Twinflames 🐻 pact forever! ❤12

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  2. My sweet AC Twinkebear, thanks so much for your thoughtful and loving comment. I love the way we have each other’s back no matter what happens. I will love you so very much, forever and a day, and more! Ha! Bear Pact, Twin Flames, Twin Doodles, Every Three minutes, Forever! 12 12 12


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