HOME: My heart lives in Twinklebear


“Home is where the heart is”



We often read that Twin Flames feel that their twins, are “home.” But what does this really mean?

your home will always be the place for which you feel the deepest affection, no matter where you are

Traditionally, home has always been described as a “place.” However, for Same Soul Twins (Twin Flames), the idea of home has shifted from a portion of space, to a person. The idea of home has in fact for Same Soul Twins, evolved from a geographical entity which may contain loved ones, to a higher plane where the loved one is the home.

This evolution of “home” from place to person for Twin Flames, is fairly uniform as far as I can tell. This is why “Your twin soul will feel like home” is universally found in those ubiquitous “Ten Signs You Are Twin Flames” articles.

Just an aside: this “sameness” of Same Soul Twins feeling that their twin is “home,” speaks to the true existence of the Twin Flame phenomenon. Hey, thousands of Same Soul Twins feeling the same thing, can’t be wrong? Right?

The way that this transformation of the idea of “home” took place for my twin “Twinklbear” Lesley Maclean and I, is instructive as to the Twin Flames process—for it is a process. A painstaking and gradual process.

From the beginning when twins reincarnate and “find” each other in the same lifetime (if they are lucky enough to do so), the twins go through a “training phase.”

But first, a disclaimer. I am no Twin Flames guru, or teacher of such. I am merely one of 144,000 Same Soul Twins, who is relating his and his twin’s journey’s experiences, in the hopes of shedding some light for other Same Soul Twins.

If that occurs, I am happy. I am also an avowed writer, who finds it cathartic to explain our journey, and who gains satisfaction from conveying food for thought.

In our training phase, Twinklebear and I first had to handle the maelstrom of extreme emotion that newly re-found twins inevitably go through.

This “initiation phase” must first be successfully completed, before other changes in one’s perceptions of “home” occur. By now, any people reading this who have undergone a true Twin Flame experience, know exactly what “successfully completed” means.

If the twins haven’t “run away” from each other, because the Same Soul Twin connection is too strong, then they have successfully completed the initial phase of the journey.

Twinklebear and I got thrown into this overpowering vortex, known as the Twin Flame journey, and somehow survived the initial crucible by fire to emerge together, with our indestructible Twin Flame connection intact and as durable as ever.

We learned by being tested by the fire of forces we did not understand, that we would forevermore be together, no matter what. We withstood the schizophrenic heavenly yet hellish fires of the Twin Flames initial phase, to emerge in one piece. Thank God!

I love you, Twinklebear! So much, too much!

The mere acceptance of this fact, that we will always be together, helped to smooth our sailing waters. We were no longer in danger of capsizing. Acceptance brought more peace of mind.

Don’t get the wrong idea, though. Although we made it past this initiation phase of the Twin Flame journey, there were still plenty of smaller bumps in the road to overcome, and milder occasional storms to weather. But they were of a lesser intensity than that “initiation phase.” Remember that I said it was a process?

Twinklebear and I eventually reached a state of comfort. Call this the “comfort zone” after the big storm of the initiation phase. In this comfort zone, we began to feel that because we felt more comfortable being with each other, than the time we were apart–that we began to think of each other as “home.” We felt the “most at home” when we were together, than the other extraneous times of our respective lives.

Our time together was the most treasured, and each other was therefore, “home.”

It is amazing how far Twinklebear and I have come in our Same Soul Twin journey. Yet, we are still learning, still evolving—and that thought is comforting. It is truly wonderful! Our love and need grows by the minute. Our connection is “strong like ox!” Ha!

Saying that, that our connection is unbreakable, would have scared both of us during our initiation phase. But not now. Not now, because we revel in or peerless love and need for each other. It is not a weakness, but a strength.

We sustain each other. We are the other’s greatest strength, because we unconditionally love and support each other.

“Thy rod and thy staff, they comfort me.”

If I may be presumptuous enough to paraphrase from the Bible about God, for I feel comfortable doing so with Twinklebear and me in mind. I am comfortable with it, because I believe that as Twin Flames, Twinklebear and I are God chosen and inspired.

Twinklebear and I, as only one of 72,000 Same Soul Twin couples chosen by the Creator as such, feel honored and blessed as Same Soul Twins, who God split into two twins. We are rare, and blessed.

Twinklebear, thy strength and thy gentleness comfort me.

This is why Twinklebear is my “home,” and I am hers.


I love you, Twinklebear
Forever and a day
Same Soul Twins, Podmates always
Bear Pact Forever!
12 12 12 in every way



  1. Aww so adorable. What a sweet, charming, and loving memoir, my sookybear. Thank you so much. We certainly have weathered many storms. It was all a part of the initial phases, of Twinflames journey.
    I do believe and feel , somewhat comforted, knowing we are always together, whether here, or not. I love that we will ALWAYS be HOME to one another ” no matter how near , or far! ” There is such a perfect feeling of knowing someone , not just now, but forevermore! I love you my sookybear podmates Twinflames 🐻 pact forever and a day! 121212
    Twindoodles always. Aww. ☀❤💙🐻

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  2. Aww..my Sweet Twinklbear. I do adore you so much. You are my home, the only question being, which of your floors do I love most? Your second floor, which has such a lovely balcony (“WINK”—I know, your attic windows are up here–ha!)–or your first floor, which has such a lovely vestibule (“LEER”)? Ha! All kidding aside, yo are my beloved home, and always will be, no matter what. I love you Forever and a day, my love. Same Soul Twins, Podmates, Twin Doodles, Bear Pact Forever. 12 12 12


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