BEING WITH EACH OTHER: Allows us to relax and be “ourselves.”



ME: “So good just to be with you, my Twinklebear.”

HER: “I know Sookybear. It’s like, I can breathe easy now, just be myself with you.”

ME: “That’s it, isn’t it? When we are with each other, we can totally be ourselves.”

HER: “It’s true. When I am with you, I can just relax and be myself.”

ME: “Yes, being with you is a dose of sanity.”

HER: “That’s right, away from all the chaos outside of us.”

ME: “Yes, like an oasis. The rest of life doesn’t seem real by comparison.”


Such simple statements of self satisfaction between me and my Twin Flame, “Twinklebear” Lesley Maclean.

See, the Twin Flame journey need not be complicated.

It is so tempting to want to cover a lot of ground in these memoirs, to be expansive and deliver the “big picture” about the Twin Flame journey. That’s understandable because the Twin Flame journey is so esoterically profound, that I have a tendency to want to convey the gravity of all of the features and signs of being a Twin Flame.

But sometimes we have to appreciate the simple pleasures of being a Twin Flame.

And one of the simple pleasures of having a Twin Flame, is that only with a Twin Flame partner with whom you are so totally in tune, can you be completely relaxed.

A person’s Twin Flame is so much like him, and so emotionally and psychologically “in tune” with him, that for that person—talking to his Twin Flame is like talking to himself.

One can’t get any more relaxed than that.

There is so much love and kindness felt about and shown one’s Twin Flame, that there is very little friction. Any intellectual conflict is minimalized, due to each Twin Soul wanting to please the other, so great is the mutual love and caring.

Any differing points of view regarding any subject, are treated with the utmost respect and open mindedness.

There is no attempt or desire to belittle the other Twin’s opinions, because Twin Flames hold the feelings of the other paramount, above all else. This is absolutely true. The last thing I’d ever want to do, is hurt my Twinklebear’s feelings!

When Twinklebear and I are with each other, we breathe a sigh of relief and silently think….

“Ahhhhh….I can relax now.”

Analogously, this is like when women get home after a hard day, and remove their bras. “Ahhhhh…that feels good!” Ha!

Yes, one of the simple pleasures of the Twin Flame journey, the privilege of relaxing, being oneself and sighing an appreciative….




I love you, Twinklebear
Forever and a day!
Twin Flames, Podmates always
Bear Pact Forever!
12 12 12 in every way


2 thoughts on ““MEMOIR: BREATHING EASY”

  1. I totally agree my sookybear, such a happy, relaxed feeling, we share, when chilling! Deep in conversation, and helping each other through life.
    I love you, I am never happier, then when we are sharing our day, or talking spiritual, or medical,. Intellectual conversation.
    Thanks so much for writing such a great memoir.
    Podmates,. Twinflames,. Bearpact 🐻 forever and a day!
    Twindoodles always! Heh.

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  2. Yes, my sweet Twinklebear, so much pleasure being in your company. We can, and do talk about anything, and it always interesting. So relaxing, so loving, so fulfilling being with you. You are right, it is the very best of life. TWIN DOODLES FOREVER! Ha! Awwww…love you forever and a day! Twin Flames, Podmates, Bear Pact Forever! 12 12 12


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