CAN YOU COME OUT AND PLAY? Twinklebear and I are magical together


“I have been trying to figure out what is so magical about us, why I feel like I want to be with you all the time and miss you so much when we are apart. It’s like when I was a little girl, and had a best friend who I wanted to be with all the time, that kind of magical feeling. I feel that way with you Sookybear. We are inseparable….and when we are together, it’s like I want to say when I was a little girl, ‘Can you come out and play?’ That’s what it feels like. We are magic, and you’ve taught me what real love is….”




Yup. We are pure magic together. As soon as Twinklebear said that, I thought to myself….“By jove, she’s got it!” Incidentally, in case you didn’t know it, “jove” is another name for the Roman god, Jupiter—so it is another way of saying “by Jupiter.”

Twinklebear did hit on a cogent point though, regarding the very nature of the Twin Flame relationship. Twin Flames are defined as two souls, who are the only true soulmates on a profound level for each other. According to the soulmate subculture, only two people can be exclusively Twin Flames with each other, while either of them have many soulmates of a lesser nature in their lives.

But only the two halves of the Twin Flame relationship—each soul being a half of the equation—can be the other matching half to the other, to form the One Soul together. In other words….

They complete each other.

These “other” lesser soulmates can be friends, relatives, and even spouses—but even if those “lesser” soulmates are husbands and wives, they may not be Twin Flames, and therefore cannot experience the full joy and magic, as Twin Flame couples do. Twinklebear Lesley Maclean, my Twin Flame soulmate, truy did accurately describe the magic in the Twin Flame relationship, that separates it from the merely loving….

Twin Flames are like children who are absolute best friends, who cannot get enough of seeing each other, who are inseparable. There is that magic there, that is missing as one gets older.

That about sums it up, pure and simple. It is true! Twin Flames are little kid best friends, who are exclusively the most important people to each other, the people they want to be with the most. All others in their lives—pale by comparison.

Think of Twin Flames as three dimensional people, full of color, substance and life. Think of others in their lives, who are are two dimensional, holographic, artificial and lacking in weight and mass. As much as these others in our lives mean to us, they do pale by comparison. This is not to disparage these other loved ones in our lives, but the analogy is accurately descriptive.

I doubt that you would find an explanation of Twin Flames as simplistic as this, in the soulmate literature. I also doubt that you would find a description, as succinctly accurate as this, either.

PSALMS 8:2 Out of the mouths of babes and sucklings hast thou ordained strength.”

Twinklebear and I often say that we feel ageless, when we are with each other, almost child-like in our playfulness. This is significant, because I am a few years older than she. Yet, when we are together, this is not even thought of. This reminds me of a question that Twinklebear posed, that gets right to the heart of the matter—the “matter” being our contention that Twin Flame relationships have an undeniably magical “little kid best friend” dynamic. She asked….

“Sookybear, do you think that souls get old? That every time we reunite (Twinklebear and I are reincarnated Twin Flames; we were a couple in previous lives) our souls are a little older each time?”

I had been thinking about this, even before this discussion came up. I have the definite impression, that Twinklebear’s soul and my soul, are very old souls, having been together in many lifetimes. In fact, we both believe that our souls, and we as Twin Flame soulmates, are ancient, dating back as far as the 12th century. If you want to know why we believe this, you’ll have to read earlier memoirs. Ha!

This makes perfect sense to us, and would account for how she and I feel ageless, like little kids together. We do differ on one point, though. While I feel that our souls don’t age, Twinklebear believes that our souls do age with every successive reincarnation, and we do accrue wisdom as time goes on. With all this being said, I’d like to say to Twinklebear….

“Hey Twinklebear, can ya come out and play? And while yer at it, you sexy thing, take yer clothes off! Ha!”


I love you, Twinklbear Lesley Maclean
Forever and A Day
Twin Flames, Podmates Always
Bear Pact Forever!
12 12 12 In Every Way!



  1. What a fantastic memoir my sookybear, thank you so much. I love you! Forever and a day . Podpact Twinflames 🐻 pact always. I will come out to play anytime my sookybear. We have had, and will have, many adventures together. So ! ” Fasten your seat belt” we’re in for the ride of our lives! Well , this lifetime round anyway.

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  2. Thanks you so much, AC Twinklebear, my love. I shall love and cherish you Forever and a Day, and just be carefjul not trip on the strewn clothes on the ground. *WINK* Twin Flames, Podmates Forever, Baby! Bear Pact Forever!


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